I received a call while hanging out with her. It was a girl that wanted to hang out. One that I have known for a few months (post gf). Anyway I told the girlfriend who was on the phone and she flipped out!
She can’t believe that I gave the girl my number or that the girl had mine. The fact I talked to the girl was probably the part the upset her the most.
To me this seems very strange as we have been together for 4 years and I have never cheated on her or broken her trust.
What do I do? I am willing to not see any more girls period (to be with her). But this seems just a tad extreme to me. Am I wrong?
I’m surprised that you’re willing not to see any more girls, period, just to be with her. Admittedly, four years is a long time, but this is one of those things that’s worth putting up a fight against. She’s trying to cow you into disregarding half of the planet, simply to soothe her neuroticism and paranoia.
And I really don’t like the idea of my girlfriend being the only girl I ever know (she is my first and only good female relationship atm)
She needs to get over this, and not just with regards to this specific person. Continue reading
