As a 30M, I’m embarrassed I’ve never learned how to do this, but I don’t know how to make friends.
For context: I lived in the same town growing up and had a solid group of friends. I left for college and lived in several places for work but never made friends in these situations. Eventually, I moved to where my old high school friends were. It felt good to have a support network around me again – but also dispiriting that I had made such little progress as an adult.
It has been exhausting – our first year is wrapping up and it has been really difficult to form friendships, regardless of gender. Continue reading
